Coping & Overcoming Anxiety, Panic Attacks with these Techniques
It is not just your imagination symptoms of anxiety, stress and panic attacks are rising, especially in young people and even with children.
Learning to Overcome Anxiety, Stress and Panic attacks using these techniques will help to Restore Balance and Harmony to your Emotions, Mental health and will have a profound positive effect on your physical health and wellbeing.
Anxiety, Stress, Panic and at times Fear present a Challenge to your Everyday Life, some days more than others. The extent of these emotional disruptions is as individual as are each of your personal experiences. It is Important to Realize these Emotions are Normal and are part of being human. Learning to manage and understand your emotions so that they do not control your life is both possible and paramount to your physical health, happiness and vitality.
No matter what age or stage of life you are at these techniques will help you to rise above these feelings.
The Secret is in Learning to accept and use these Emotions as Your Pillar of Strength
Embracing acceptance that Sadness, Happiness, Joy, Fear, Excitement and Terror are all part of life, effecting your emotions is an important Key to Bringing balance back to your emotional health and wellbeing.
Learning to bring about calmness with your thoughts and mind will help to overcome these feelings. One of life’s Great lessons is learning to balance and make use of these emotions to build a Healthy, Positive Life. I remember once hearing whether you are doing something or doing nothing there will always be a level of anxiety and stress associated.
Anxiety, stress and panic may come into your life a variety of life events, past traumas, actions or activities. Sometimes it can just be the thought of change or the unknown that will bring these feelings to light. No matter what the cause or reason behind these feelings these strategies will help bring about acceptance, calmness and sometimes even a gratitude of these emotions.
Emotional & Physical Connection
Your emotional and physical reactions to stress are partly determined by the sensitivity of your sympathetic nervous system. This system produces the fight or flight reaction in response to stress and excitement, speeding up and heightening the pulse rate, respiration, muscle tension, glandular function, and circulation of the blood.
If you have recurrent anxiety symptoms, either major or minor lifestyle and emotional upsets may cause an overreaction of your sympathetic system. If you have an especially stressful life, your sympathetic nervous system may always be poised to react to a crisis, putting you in a state of constant tension. In this mode, you tend to react to small stresses the same way you would react to real emergencies.
The energy that accumulates in the body to meet this “emergency” must be discharged in order to bring your body back into balance. Repeated episodes of the fight or flight reaction depletes your energy reserves and, if they continue, cause a downward spiral that can lead to emotional burnout and eventually complete exhaustion. You can break this spiral only by learning to manage stress in a way that protects and even increases your energy level.
Emotional Balance to Stress
To achieve a Life of Optimal Health, Happiness and Vitality. It is important to bring about positive changes, constructive ways that will assist you to handle times of anxiety, stress, tension and panic. Allowing you to take control of your mind and your emotions to develop a healthy emotional balance, an ease with applying positive lifestyle changes that will support a healthier and happier YOU!
Allowing you to feel more grounded and able to enjoy positive relationships with family, friends and work colleagues . Stress plays a part each and everyday this might be from riding in an elevator, being in crowds, going to the dentist, exams, learning to drive a car, a situation, place, or person that might spark one of these emotional responses.
Then there are more serious and deep lifestyle events and changes such as the soldier being sent to the cold front of war, homelessness, death of a loved one, divorce, job loss, financial problems, and major changes in personal relationships can be almost impossible to handle when a you may already be feeling anxious and tense.
Being unable to cope with stress effectively can also damage your self esteem and self- confidence. Often when suffering with anxiety episodes may you may have moments of feeling a decrease in your sense of self-worth as you feel powerless to take control. Life Stresses unfortunately will always be around and there will be many that are out of your control. However, these external stresses may well be out of your direct control whereby the only way to take control is by taking control of how you react and handle them.
Balancing your Thoughts
A Major step to balancing your thoughts lies in your daily habits. When you engage with negative habits, listen to gossip, watch too much negative television, read negative books, watch thriller or violent movies, mix with toxic, negative people.
This will all increase your feelings of anxiety, fear, stress and panic. Bringing balance to your feelings begins with changing your thoughts. Meditation, Visualization and Inspirational Guidance techniques will all support bringing balance back to your emotions and thoughts.
Calming your Mind
Often what happens with recurring symptoms of anxiety and nervous tension, these can be fuelled by a constant stream of negative “self-talk” Throughout the day your conscious mind may be inundated with thoughts, feelings, and fantasies that trigger feelings of upset. Many of these thoughts replay unresolved issues of health, finances, or personal and work relationships.
This relentless mental replay of unresolved issues can reinforce the anxiety symptoms and be exhausting. It is important to know how to shut off the constant inner dialogue and quiet the mind. This is also known as meditation, just consciously making a decision to stop thinking allowing all the negativity to flow out.
Understanding that this is causing you distress and is all too damaging for you. Meditation letting your thoughts run free not blocking them nor giving them residence just allowing them to pass through creates a state of deep relaxation, bringing restoration and repair to both your physical and emotional wellbeing.
Your Metabolism slows, as do physiological functions such as heart rate and blood pressure. Muscle tension decreases. Brain wave patterns shift from the fast beta waves that occur during a normal active day to the slower alpha waves, which appear just before falling asleep or in times of deep relaxation. If you practice these exercises regularly, they can help relieve anxiety by resting your mind and turning off upsetting thoughts.
Redirecting Your Focus
Changing direction, re-directing your focus from the negative to the positive and what is going to bring about positive results for you and the people in your life. Select a small personal object that you like a great deal. It might be a jewelled pin or a simple flower from your garden.
Focus all your attention on this object as you inhale and exhale slowly and deeply for one to two minutes. While you are doing this exercise, try not to let any other thoughts or feelings enter your mind. If they do, just return your attention to the object. At the end of this exercise you will probably feel more peaceful and calmer. Any tension or nervousness that you were feeling upon starting the exercise should be diminished.
Grounding Techniques to Bring Balance & Harmony
When going through anxiety episodes it is common to feel ungrounded and disorganized. There is a pervasive sense of “things falling apart.” When anxiety episodes occur, it often takes a concentrated effort just to get through the day, accomplishing such basic daily tasks as cooking, housecleaning, taking care of children, or getting to work or school.
The next two exercises teach you grounding techniques that will help you feel more centred and focused. Practicing either of these exercises will allow you to organize your energies and proceed more effectively with your daily routine.
# Refocus Meditation •Sit or lie in a comfortable position. •Close your eyes and breathe deeply. Let your breathing be slow and relaxed. •Focus all your attention on your breathing. Notice the movement of your chest and abdomen in and out.
Block out all other thoughts, feelings, and sensations. If you feel your attention wandering, bring it back to your breathing. •As you inhale, say the word “peace” to yourself, and as you exhale, say the word “calm.” Draw out the pronunciation of the word so that it lasts for the entire breath. The word “peace” sounds like p-e-e-a-a-a-c-c-c-e-e-e. The word “calm” sounds like: c-a-a-a-l-l-l-l-m-m-m. Repeating these words as you breathe will help you to concentrate. •Continue this exercise until you feel very relaxed.
#Oak Tree Meditation •Sit in a comfortable position, your arms resting at your sides. •Close your eyes and breathe deeply. Let your breathing be slow and relaxed. •See your body as a strong oak tree. Your body is solid like the wide, brown trunk of the tree. Imagine sturdy roots growing from your legs and going down deeply into the earth, anchoring your body. You feel solid and strong, able to handle any stress. •When upsetting thoughts or situations occur, visualize your body remaining grounded like the oak tree. Feel the strength and stability in your arms and legs. •You feel confident and relaxed, able to handle any situation.
#Core Grounding Meditation •Sit in a comfortable position, your arms resting comfortably at your sides. •Close your eyes and breathe deeply. Let your breathing be slow and relaxed. •Imagine a thick wide cord attaching itself to the base of your spine. This is your grounding cord. It can be a thick piece of rope, a tree trunk, or any other material that feels strong and stable. Make sure your cord is wide and sturdy enough.
Then imagine a thick metal hook attaching itself to the end of your cord. •Now visualize your grounding cord dropping down two hundred feet below the earth and hooking on to the solid bedrock below the earth. •Continue to breathe deeply and notice the sense of peace and stability that your grounding cord can bring you. •Replace the cord with a new one each day or whenever you feel your emotions getting out of control.
# Muscle Tension Release The next three exercises will help you get in touch with your areas of muscle tension and then help you learn to release this tension. This is an important sequence for women with emotional symptoms of anxiety and nervous tension since habitual emotional patterns cause certain muscle groups to tense and tighten.
For example, if a person has difficulty in expressing feelings, the neck muscles may be chronically tense. A person with a lot of repressed anger may have chest pain and tight chest muscles. Contracted muscles limit movement and energy flow in the body, since they tend to have decreased blood circulation and oxygenation and accumulate an excess of waste products, such as carbon dioxide and lactic acid.
Therefore, muscle tension can be a significant cause of the fatigue that often accompanies chronic stress. The following exercises help release tension and the blocked emotions held in tight muscles.
1: Discovering Muscle Tension
- Lie on your back in a comfortable position. Allow your arms to rest at your sides, palms down, on the surface next to you.
- Raise just the right hand and arm and hold it elevated for 15 seconds.
- Notice if your forearm feels tight and tense or if the muscles are soft and pliable.
- Let your hand and arm drop down and relax. The arm muscles will relax too.
- As you lie still, notice any other parts of your body that feel tense, muscles that feel tight and sore. You may notice a constant dull aching in certain muscles.
2: Progressive Muscle Relaxation
- Lie on your back in a comfortable position. Allow your arms to rest at your sides, palms down, on the surface next to you.
- Inhale and exhale slowly and deeply.
- Clench your hands into fists and hold them tightly for 15 seconds. As you do this, relax the rest of your body. Visualize your fists contracting, becoming tighter and tighter.
- Then let your hands relax. On relaxing, see a golden light flowing into the entire body, making all your muscles soft and pliable.
- Now, tense and relax the following parts of your body in this order: face, shoulders, back, stomach, pelvis, legs, feet, and toes. Hold each part tensed for 15 seconds and then relax your body for 30 seconds before going on to the next part.
- Finish the exercise by shaking your hands and imagining the remaining tension flowing out of your fingertips.
3: Release of Muscle Tension and Anxiety
- Lie in a comfortable position. Allow your arms to rest at your sides, palms down. Inhale and exhale slowly and deeply with your eyes closed.
- Become aware of your feet, ankles, and legs. Notice if these parts of your body have any muscle tension or tightness. If so, how does the tense part of your body feel? Is it vicelike, knotted, cold and numb? Do you notice any strong feelings, such as hurt, upset, or anger, in that part of your body? Breathe into that part of your body until you feel it relax. Release any anxious feelings with your breathing, continuing until they begin to decrease in intensity and fade.
- Next, move your awareness into your hips, pelvis, and lower back. Note any tension there. Notice any anxious feelings located in that part of your body. Breathe into your hips and pelvis until you feel them relax. Release any negative emotions as you breathe in and out
- Focus on your abdomen and chest. Notice any anxious feelings located in this area and let them drop away as you breathe in and out. Continue to release any upsetting feelings located in your abdomen or chest.
- Finally, focus on your head, neck, arms, and hands. Note any tension in this area and release it. With your breathing; release any negative feelings blocked in this area until you can’t feel them anymore.
When you have finished releasing tension throughout the body, continue deep breathing and relaxing for another minute or two. At the end of this exercise, you should feel lighter and more energized.
Defining the Various Aspects of Stress
Often the situations and beliefs that make you feel anxious and tense look large and insurmountable. Often you will tend to form representations in your mind that give stress more power than it deserves. In these representations, you see yourself as tiny and helpless. With the stressors looking huge and unsolvable.
You can change these mental representations and cut stressors down to size. The next two exercises will help you to gain mastery over stress by learning to shrink it or even erase it with your mind. This places stress in a much more manageable and realistic perspective. These two exercises will also help engender a sense of power and mastery, thereby reducing anxiety and restoring a sense of calm.
1: Shrinking Stress
- Sit or lie in a comfortable position. Breathe slowly and deeply.
- Visualize a situation, person, or even a belief (such as, “I’m afraid of the dark” or “I don’t want to give that public speech”) that makes you feel anxious and tense.
- As you do this, you might see a person’s face, a place you’re afraid to go, or simply a dark cloud. Where do you see this stressful picture? Is it above you, to one side, or in front of you? How does it look? Is it big or little, dark or light? Does it have certain colours?
- Now slowly begin to shrink the stressful picture. Continue to see the stressful picture shrinking until it is so small that it can literally be held in the palm of your hand. Hold your hand out in front of you, and place the picture in the palm of your hand.
- If the stressor has a characteristic sound (like a voice or traffic noise), hear it getting tiny and soft. As it continues to shrink, its voice or sounds become almost inaudible.
- Now the stressful picture is so small it can fit on your second finger. Watch it shrink from there until it finally turns into a little dot and disappears. •
- Often this exercise causes feelings of amusement, as well as relaxation, as the feared stressor shrinks, gets less intimidating, and finally disappears.
2: Erasing Stress
- Sit or lie in a comfortable position. Breathe slowly and deeply.
- Visualize a situation, a person, or even a belief (such as, “I’m afraid to go to the shopping mall” or “I’m scared to mix with other people at parties”) that causes you to feel anxious and fearful.
- As you do this you might see a specific person, an actual place, or simply shapes and colours. Where do you see this stressful picture? Is it below you, to the side, in front of you? How does it look? Is it big or little, dark or light, or does it have a specific colour?
- Imagine that a large eraser, like the kind used to erase chalk marks, has just floated into your hand. Actually feel and see the eraser in your hand. Take the eraser and begin to rub it over the area where the stressful picture is located. As the eraser rubs out the stressful picture it fades, shrinks, and finally disappears. When you can no longer see the stressful picture, simply continue to focus on your deep breathing for another minute, inhaling and exhaling slowly and deeply.
3: Healing your Inner Child
Many of our anxieties and fears come from our inner child rather than our adult self. Sometimes it is difficult to realize that the emotional upsets we feel are actually feelings left over from childhood fears, traumas, and experiences.
When unhealed, they remain with us into adulthood, causing emotional distress over issues that competent “grown up” people feel they should be able to handle. For example, fear of the dark, fear of being unlovable, and fear of rejection often originate in early dysfunctional or unhappy experiences with our parents and siblings.
While many of these deep, unresolved emotional issues may require counselling, particularly if they are causing anxiety episodes, there is much that we can do for ourselves to heal childhood wounds. The next exercise helps you to get in touch with your own inner child and facilitates the healing process.
Exercise to Heal your Inner Child
- Sit or lie in a comfortable position. Breathe slowly and deeply.
- Begin to get in touch with where your inner child resides. Is she located in your abdomen, in your chest, or by your side? (This may actually be the part of your body where you feel the most fear and anxiety, such as your chest or your pelvis.) How old is she? Can you see what clothes she is wearing? What are her emotions? Is she upset, anxious, sad, or angry? Is she withdrawn and quiet?
- Begin to see her upset feelings flow out of her body and into a container on the floor. Watch the upset feelings wash out of every part of her body until they are all gone and the container is full. Then seal the container and slowly watch it fade and dissolve until it disappears completely, carrying all the upset feelings with it.
- Now begin to fill your inner child with a peaceful, healing, golden light. Watch her become peaceful and mellow as the light fills every cell in her body. Watch her body relax. Give her a toy animal or a doll or even cuddle her in your arms. •As you leave your inner child feeling peaceful, return your focus to your breathing. Spend a minute inhaling and exhaling deeply and slowly. If you like working with your inner child, return to visit her often!
Visualization – The Art of Bringing to Life your Dreams
The next two exercises use visualization as a therapeutic method to affect the physical and mental processes of the body; both focus on colour. Colour therapy, as it applies to human health, has a long and distinguished history. In many studies, scientists have exposed subjects to specific colours, either directly through exposure to light therapy, or through changing the colour of their environment.
Scientific research throughout the world has shown that colour therapy can have a profound effect on health and well-being. It can stimulate the endocrine glands, the immune system, and the nervous system, and help to balance the emotions.
Visualizing colour in a specific part of the body can have a powerful therapeutic effect, too, and can be a good stress management technique for relief of anxiety and nervous tension. Choose your favourite colour and visualize your stresses being absorbed into this colour protecting you.
The first exercise uses the colour blue, which provides a calming and relaxing effect. For women with anxiety who are carrying a lot of physical and emotional tension, blue lessons the fight or flight response. Blue also calms such physiological functions as pulse rate, breathing, and perspiration, and relaxes the mood. If you experience chronic fatigue and are tense, anxious, or irritable, or carry a lot of muscle tension, the first exercise will be very helpful.
The second exercise uses the colour red, which can benefit women who have fatigue due to chronic anxiety and upset. Red stimulates all the endocrine glands, including the pituitary and adrenal glands. It heightens senses such as smell and taste.
Emotionally, red is linked to vitality and high energy states. Even though the colour red can speed up autonomic nervous system function, women with anxiety-related fatigue can benefit from visualizing this colour. I often do the red visualization when I am tired and need a pick me up. You may find that you are attracted to the colour in one exercise more than another. Use the exercise with the colour that appeals to you the most.
The Use of Visualizing Colour to Bring Balance
Release Tension using Colour
- Sit or lie in a comfortable position, your arms resting at your sides. As you take a deep breath, visualize that the earth below you is filled with the colour blue. This blue colour extends 50 feet below you into the earth. Now imagine that you are opening up energy centres on the bottom of your feet. As you inhale, visualize the soft blue colour filling up your feet. When your feet are completely filled with the colour blue, then bring the colour up through your ankles, legs, pelvis, and lower back.
- Each time you exhale, see the blue colour leaving through your lungs, carrying any tension and stress with it. See the tension dissolve into the air.
- Continue to inhale blue into your abdomen, chest, shoulders, arms, neck, and head. Exhale the blue slowly out of your lungs. Repeat this entire process five times and then relax for a few minutes.
Reenergize Using Colour
- Sit or lie in a comfortable position, your arms resting easily at your sides. As you take a deep breath, visualize a big balloon above your head filled with a bright red healing energy. Imagine that you pop this balloon so all the bright red energy is released.
- As you inhale, see the bright red colour filling up your head. It fills up your brain, your face, and the bones of your skull. Let the bright red colour pour in until your head is ready to overflow with colour. Then let the red colour flow into your neck, shoulders, arms, and chest. As you exhale, breathe the red colour out of your lungs, taking any tiredness and fatigue with it. Breathe any feeling of fatigue out of your body.
- As you inhale, continue to bring the bright, energizing red colour into your abdomen, pelvis, lower back, legs, and feet until your whole body is filled with red. Exhale the red colour out of your lungs, continuing to release any feeling of fatigue. Repeat this process five times. At the end of this exercise, you should feel more energized and vibrant. Your mental energy should feel more vitalized and clear.
Affirmations Reduce Feelings of Anxiety, Panic & Fear
Due to a complex interplay between the mind and body. Your state of emotional and physical health is determined in part by the thousands of mental messages you send yourself each day with your thoughts. For example, if fear of public places triggers your anxiety symptoms, the mind will send a constant stream of messages to you reinforcing your beliefs about the dangers and mishaps that can occur in public places.
The fright triggers muscle tension and shallow breathing. Similarly, if you constantly criticize the way you look, your lack of self-love may be reflected in your body. For example, your shoulders will slump and you may have a dull and lacklustre countenance. Inspirational Guidance and Affirmations provide a method to change these negative belief systems to thoughts that preserve peace and calm. Positive statements replace the anxiety inducing messages with thoughts that make you feel good.
Affirmations for Emotional Balance & Physical health
Using these affirmations may create a feeling of emotional peace by changing your negative beliefs about your body and health into positive beliefs. To improve and help build your self-esteem and self-confidence by reducing feelings of anxiety, panic and fear. Not to allow feelings of anxiety to deplete you of self-confidence or self-esteem that often leave you with feelings of depression and helplessness.
Balancing Mind/Body Affirmations
- I handle stress and tension appropriately and effectively.
My mood is calm and relaxed.
- I can cope well and get on with my life during times of stress
- I think thoughts that uplift and nurture me.
- I enjoy thinking positive thoughts that make me feel good about myself and my life.
- I deserve to feel good right now.
- I feel peaceful and calm.
- My breathing is slow and calm.
- My muscles are relaxed and comfortable.
- I feel grounded and fully present.
- I can effectively handle any situation that comes my way.
- I think through the solutions to my emotional issues slowly and peacefully.
- I am thankful for all the positive things in my life.
- I practice the relaxation methods that I enjoy.
- My body is healthy and strong.
- I eat a well balanced and nutritious diet.
- I enjoy eating delicious and healthful food.
- My body wants food that is easy to digest and high in vitamins and minerals.
- I do regular exercise in a relaxed and enjoyable manner.
- I am filled with energy, vitality, and self-confidence.
- I am pleased with how I handle my emotional needs.
- I know exactly how to manage my daily schedule to promote my emotional and physical well-being.
- I listen to my body’s needs and regulate my activity level to take care of those needs.
- I love and honour my body.
- I fill my mind with positive and self-nourishing thoughts.
- I am a wonderful and worthy person.
- I deserve health, vitality, and peace of mind.
- I have total confidence in my ability to heal myself.
- I feel radiant with abundant energy and vitality.
- The world around me is full of radiant beauty and abundance.
- I am attracted only to those people and situations that support and nurture me.
- I appreciate the positive people and situations that are currently in my life.
- I love and honour myself. •I enjoy my positive thoughts and feelings.
Simple Ways to Care for Yourself
Hydrotherapy For centuries, people have used warm water as a way to calm moods and relax muscles. You can have your own “spa” at home by adding relaxing ingredients to the bath water. I have found the following formula to be extremely useful in relieving muscle pain and tension.
Alkaline Bath Run a tub of warm water. Heat will increase your menstrual flow, so keep the water a little cooler if heavy flow is a problem. Add one cup of sea salt and one cup of bicarbonate of soda to the tub. This is a highly alkaline mixture and I recommend using it only once or twice a month.
I have found it very helpful in reducing cramps and calming anxiety and irritability. Soak for 20 minutes. You will probably feel very relaxed and sleepy after this bath; use it at night before going to sleep.
You will probably wake up feeling refreshed and energized the following day. Heat of any kind helps to release muscle tension. Many women find that saunas and baths also help to calm their moods.
Sound Music can have a tremendously relaxing effect on our minds and bodies. For women with anxiety and nervous tension, I recommend slow, quiet music classical music is particularly good. This type of music can have a pronounced beneficial effect on your physiological functions.
It can slow your pulse and heart rate, lower your blood pressure, and decrease your levels of stress hormones. It promotes peace and relaxation and helps to induce sleep. Nature sounds, such as ocean waves and rainfall, can also induce a sense of peace and relaxation.
I have patients who keep tapes of nature sounds in their cars and at home for use when they feel more stressed. Play relaxing music often when you are aware of increased emotional and physical tension.
Massage can be extremely therapeutic for relieving anxiety and stress. Gentle touching either by a trained massage therapist, your relationship partner, or even yourself can be very relaxing. Tension usually fades away relatively quickly with gentle, relaxed touching. The kneading and stroking movement of a good Massage relaxes tight muscles and improves circulation. If you can afford to do so, I recommend treating yourself to a professional Massage during times of stress. Otherwise, trade with a friend or partner.